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Stacey Graham's avatar

It was a long and emotional read. And it needed to be said, though it left me crying. Your words helped me to give all of these conflicting emotions that have been swirling around inside of me into perspective. Thank you.❤️

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Jim Bono's avatar

Thank you for the two pictures. The two visions. I agree that the issue is really a conflict of visions. Given your book - will we have a vision of gratitude and inclusion or scarcity and tribalism? We certainly have seen where the last four years have left us, fanning division, hate, and the fear of scarcity as a driving engine of that effort. For it is an active effort - that works to the gain of some individuals, parties and companies. We have also seen efforts at inclusion, eight years of the first African American president, movements towards civil rights, voting rights, equality and acceptance of sexual orientation. But have the streams merged, or are they two different currents? As you say, how can one location be so different simply separated by five months time? Personally, I really want to believe what John Lewis said - what he believed. But what will it take? I think about this when I think about the word reparations. And, I think of that through the lens of what I am - a 66 year old white male. Some people think of reparations primarily as money, but given the people of color that I've been blessed to work and live with, I wonder if that would be enough? I don't think so. What would it take to REPAIR the relationships with the sons and daughters of enslaved people, with the children of immigrants whose parents brought them here from Central America fleeing violence and (dear God) what will it take to heal the relationship with the First Nations on whose stolen land we tread? And, what will it take for us to repair the relationship with those over-ran the Rotunda a week ago, and can that even be repaired?? I believe that John Lewis would try to find a way, and I know he was a better human than me. I don't know those big answers, so I will try to continue to do what Mother Teresa challenged us with. "Small acts done with great love." I will continue to collect coats for refugee and asylee families, raise money so the homeless can rent a room during a Chicago winter, and give to our local foodbank which is straining with a load that they have never before experienced. May we all find a plow to which we can attach our hands....

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