SUNDAY MUSINGS are short reflections from the Cottage about faith, hope, and love — because we all need encouragement along the way.
I started watching Ted Lasso recently. The award-winning series (streaming on AppleTV) is about a cheerful Kansas football coach who winds up in London coaching AFC Richmond, a flailing English soccer team.
Ted Lasso has a dedicated fan base, a group that loves asking newcomers: Who is your favorite character? I love Ted (of course!), Rebecca (the team owner), and Roy Kent (the aging team star). But it is a quiet character, a background figure appearing in every show with only a single line, that I find utterly compelling: the BELIEVE sign.
I’ve not yet finished watching the available shows (so please no spoilers in the comments!). But that BELIEVE sign begs a question: What does it really mean to believe? Through all the team’s tensions, surprising victories, and painful losses, the sign hangs in the locker room, ambiguously omnipresent:
Is “believe” merely a kind of happy-talk self-help mantra, a sweet midwestern optimism oddly out-of-place in a more cynical world? BELIEVE and your dreams of winning and fame will come true.
Or, is “believe” something else? A disposition that is truthful, a practice that is transformative, a challenge to embrace, a struggle to endure? BELIEVE how? BELIEVE what? BELIEVE who? There are no predetermined answers, and finding a way to belief is messy.
From one perspective “BELIEVE” seems to taunt. If you believe hard enough, you will be rewarded. But, from the other, there is less clarity and maybe even unexpected sadness; BELIEVE seems to draw us toward our doubts and fears.
Almost twenty years ago, a few sentences in The Heart of Christianity by Marcus Borg revolutionized how I understood “believe”:
Prior to the seventeenth century, the word “believe” did not mean believing in the truth of statements or propositions, whether problematic or not. Grammatically, the object of believing was not statements, but a person. Moreover, the contexts in which it is used in premodern English make it clear that it meant: to hold dear; to prize; to give one’s loyalty to; to give one’s self to; to commit oneself. It meant. . . faithfulness, allegiance, loyalty, commitment, and trust.
Most simply, “to believe” meant “to love.” Indeed, the English words “believe” and “belove” are related. What we believe is what we belove. Faith is about beloving God. . . To believe in God is to belove God. Faith is about beloving God and all that God beloves. . . Faith is the way of the heart.
If the BELIEVE sign means “I believe that AFC Richmond will win the championship. I believe that. I believe,” well, then you’d be in trouble. That’s a statement about the truth of something.
But I’ve come to think that the BELIEVE sign means “I believe AFC Richmond. I believe this team,” and the point becomes clearer: I trust this team, I trust these people, I give my allegiance to you all. The BELIEVE sign doesn’t conjure our desires for a specific answer or outcome. Instead, it creates the possibility to become different players, a different team, and a different kind of community — one called forth in what we belove.
Although I’ve not yet watched the all the episodes of Ted Lasso, the story seems to be exploring BELIEVE through questions of “faithfulness, allegiance, loyalty, commitment, and trust” through the relationships between the various characters — and how BELIEVE and BELOVE are of a piece. After all, how can we possibly believe without love?
INSPIRATION
Those who believe they believe in God, but without passion in the heart, without anguish of mind, without uncertainty, without doubt, and even at times without despair, believe only in the idea of God, and not in God himself.
―Madeleine L'Engle
Can we imagine a Christianity where the creed read:
I belove God the Father Almighty. . .
I belove Jesus Christ, his only son. . .
I belove the Holy Spirit. . . ?
What a difference that would make!
— Diana Butler Bass
Richard Rohr posted a reflection from my Freeing Jesus this week. If you missed it, please click HERE.
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Diana, We met when I was working on my D.Min over a decade ago at The Virginia Theological Seminary. Furthermore, you have influenced me with your writing from the earliest days of my ordained ministry when your column was published in the Tuscaloosa News. A number of your books not only grace my shelves but have been read! I'm now a "Retired Episcopal Priest." Last summer into the fall I spent 12 weeks as a Sunday sabbatical supply priest in Edenton NC. My second sermon in this parish on August 22, 2021 (13 Pentecost) used the Ted Lasso graphic in the video and within the printed bulletin. I explored the word belief with a "I believe, help my unbelief" as my preaching anchor while engaging Ephesians 6:10-20. Below is a link to my 11 minute sermon (no text - I'm "extemporaneous"). I am so grateful to subscribe to your writing through this newsletter. Bill
https://wct.coach/2021/08/22/the-thirteenth-sunday-after-pentecost-sermon-august-22-2021/
Diana, our paths cross again: I just LOVE LOVE LOVE that you discovered Ted Lasso!! As I did, late, just this year (after hearing the Ted Lasso name again and again and feeling I was missing out. The last time that happened to me, it was finally YOU, talking about Downton Abbey, that made me tune in, a few seasons late. Thank you for that!) I am also grateful that you recalled for me Marcus' notion of "believe" and "believe" which was a breakthrough for so many. I just listened to the Greyhounds podcast and felt so proud of you as a theologian bringing depth and new insight to Ted Lasso. Yes, it made us HAPPY. Who knew how much we needed that?!