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Joni Miller, Ph.D.'s avatar

Beautifully said. A difficult thing to try to love your neighbor when you also want to shake them into sanity. One thing that helps me is the practice of "just like me" - just like me that person wants to be safe and secure, to have enough food and clean water ... and then I proceed upward on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Someone who wants gun control and someone who is for gun rights are both looking for safety and some semblance of control; their solutions are just very different. Making an assumption about the underlying desire helps bring down my blood pressure.

Carol's avatar

I’m reminded of Etty Hellesum

a Dutch Jew in the German camps

Praying to God “I know you can not help me , but I can help you “

She went on to wherever she could offer kindness help and love to all even the captives soldiers guarding them

Hard to do but an example to the world !

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